Culture differences

What should I talk about today? I guess I can talk a bit about what I’ve been thinking about. I’m currently in Haiti but originally from Canada. I grew up in the country not having much but having the essentials. And I think growing in the country was preparing me for this mission.

In Haiti many people have next to nothing and yet they are so happy. I remember growing up I always wanted more and more but my parents told me ‘the more material things you have the less happy you are’. When I was 4 I had no idea what that meant and I did not believe my parents, I just wanted more.

Now I realize how true it is. If you don’t have many things to preoccupy yourself with then you fall back on human relationships. You mean people actually talk and not just text? Yes people here talk, they have friends, they play soccer with an old Coca Cola bottle, they study together. It’s rare that you will see a Haitian alone, they are always in groups joking around and having fun.

I find people here are more touchy feely but not in an awkward way. It’s more of a I’m comfortable with you so I don’t mind holding your hand. Guys and girls hold hands even though they are not a couple. It’s just a sign of friendship.

Picture taken in MilotPhysical touch is one of my love languages so I can appreciate when they give me a tap on the back, a handshake or a hi 5. But I do have to say that I feel awkward when they want to hold my hand. It’s a culture difference. I don’t mind when women or girls do it but it’s when guys do it that I’m uncomfortable.

I always have to question the guys’ intentions. I’ve been asked a few times in marriage here already and I’ve also been asked to go over at their place for the night. Never would I want to go to a guy’s place, especially if I just met him.

I’m generalizing but I noticed that Haitians have a thing for white people. Whenever they see a white person they have to go talk to them. At first I didn’t mind that. I liked the attention but now it really bothers me. I can’t wait for the day that I go for a walk and no one asks me to join. I do like my alone time but Haitian don’t understand that. Again, it’s a difference in the culture.

-My Catholic Living

3 thoughts on “Culture differences

  1. As I was reading this post, my thoughts went back to “Jesus and the crowds.” How many wanted to “touch” Him, what He was wearing or anything else about Him?

    I am not a “touchy feely” person either. I as you, love my solitude. I have learned through the years, sometimes others reach out to us in the only way they know how. If that way is “touch feely” it always seems to place me in an uncomfortable state of being, for a moment. It is hard for me to respond to. I wonder if Christ felt that way? Always being “touched” or “grabbed” at.

    I am looking forward to getting to know you better through your post. I love what you write. Love and God Bless, SR

    Like

    1. That’s a good question. I mean would Jesus get frustrated that everyone wanted to see, touch and talk to Him? But Jesus was so selfless and put others above His own needs.
      This makes me think, was Jesus and introvert or an extrovert?

      Like

  2. I heard testimony of nun from Haiti and its amazing that these people are surronded by love. I missing it in Europe, that is trend to live alone and having a lot of useless gadgeds instead taking care of other people

    Rita

    Like

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s